Ok....so.....here it is in a nutshelll.....(nut being literal). My darling sister Rayna....(aka erratic complex to you all except
natertatersmom ) calls me up on Wednesday night and tells me she had decided to get married. Now see....we already knew this because at Christmas she showed us her engagement ring.....BUT the wedding would be after she finished school and so on and so forth. WELL, this little darling tells me Wednesday that they have decided to move the date up to.........JULY 18 ....YES THIS SUMMER......ALMOST 3 MONTHS AWAY *headdesk*headdesk*headdesk* And the little sneak hasn't even told MOM yet! ZOMG!!! Bless her heart because I know how she felt. I think she called to find out how to tell Mom more than she called to tell me the news. She knows that I have broken mom in when it comes to that kind of stuff. (Please understand, for those of you who don't KNOW my mother, this is gonna go over like a lead ballon full of TNT that crash lands into a nuclear power plant)
I finally conviced her that she needed to call mom immediately and just tell her and get it over with. God forbid mom hears the news from someone else....it would get ugly! Plus, it would give her time to adjust to the news and not kill Kyle (the hubby to be) when they get home for summer break in a month. I told her to make sure moms husband was there before she broke the news, cause mom could very possibly stoke out!!! I swear, you couldn't pay me a million dollars to have been in Rayna's shoes at that moment.
Mom took the news better than I expected. She cried and was a little heartbroken, after all, Rayna IS the baby. I told Rayna that she was just gonna have to be patient with mom....and that one day she would understand what mom was feeling.
I am a little heartbroken too. After all, this is the child that when she was 6 months old, my best friend and I put her in the middle of the waterbed, got on seperate ends, and pushed the mattress and made Rayna fly about 2 feet in the air for fun. I changed her diapers. I watched her graduate Kindergarten...blah blah blah. She wasn't supposed to grow up on me. And now she IS all grown up, and my kids are right behind her *damnit*. But for her....I am also excited. I love her with all my heart and I will always be there for her.
WARNING TO KYLE.......IF YOU BREAK HER HEART OR HURT HER IN ANY WAY....I WILL COME BREAK SEVERAL BONES IN YOU SCRAWNY LITTLE BODY....AND I WILL HAVE A BOND WHEN I AM DONE...SO DON'T MESS UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *gives Kyle the stink eye*
Let the planning begin!!!